About Russian brides and Western men

I have a couple of female friends who are members of several dating sites already for long time. I met them yesterday to learn something about such kind of online communication, character and nature of Western men, their way of life and things like that. And I asked about my friend's goals and reasons in being "Russian bride" on dating sites.

Well, here is what I've heard from them. They think men from dating sites can be of 2 types. The first type is marriage minded men. They really want to find their soulmates and future wives, they are serious and ask serious questions in letters or in chat, they gladly tell about their past relationships, their families, kids, job etc. They don't like long correspondence and they organize personal meeting as soon as possible. The second type is play boys - they think all of girls on the site are ready for anything for them and their attention. Such men believe they can buy any girl, they pay for communication, so they can ask for anything. Play boy corresponds with lot's of girls at the same time, but tells each girl that she is unique and one and only for him. Then play boy choose several girls for personal meeting and organize such a sex tour, hoping to have fun with them.
To say that I was shoked with the 2nd type of men is nothing to say! How to find out what kind of man you are talking too? This is the problem of online communication I think...the problem of trust...

As for Russian brides and their types, I found out that some girls are looking for marriage, some want to move to other country, some of them are eternal brides on dating sites.
I've asked myself about my goals. I think to look for marriage at once is not right. I think it is right to talk to several men I have simpathy to, then after some period of communication to choose the small circle of real friends (if I will have them). I am not going to lie them, I will not hide from them about my communication with several men, because I think I have right to choose, but not to take the first one. If I feel something serious to one of them, I will talk only to him. This is my plan :)))

Well, I had to choose the site to post my profile to. I don't want to be one of million of other Russian brides, so I don't want to publish my profile at old and well known sites. I believe those sites are like conveyor - well organizes business without any individual methods of work with clients. So I decided to publish my profile here chatrussianbrides.com, because they talk to each client, offer individual services, have correspondence, chat and I can view men's videos there. I am not going to start long correspondence. I speak rather good English and I think chat is an ideal way to talk to person. By the way, they have two-way video chat, so I think I will need a web cam - wow! it is very interesting!!! :)))) To tell the truth I am romantic and maybe I wait too much from such service, but I believe this adventure will bring something good and bright into my life.

My first words here

Well, my blog's name is "Blog of pretty Russian bride Anna - my experience". I am from Ukraine, but most of people from other parts of the world associate my country with Russia, and it's a pitty :( I know that there are lot's of girls like me, who want to find their love using different dating sites, and I think all of them have made such a community of "Russian brides", that is why I am new Russian bride who is ready to start her way to....I don't know what waits form me, but I hope...to happiness.
Why I am going to find my soul mate abroad? Because I have dated men here in Ukraine, I think I even was in love with one of them. But something happened that made me think about my future. I don't want to tell something bad about Ukrainian men, they are what they are. I want to tell that I want to try to make relationship with a person from other culture. I love my country, beautiful places and kind people, but I have a feeling that in my past life I've been living somewhere in Western Europe. I beleive in it stronger when I travel abroad, when I see their culture, traditions, their way of life - it is close to me.